Are You the Frog in the Pot?

Remember the old story about frogs? Put a frog in boiling water and he will jump right out. Put a frog in tepid water and slowly turn up the flame and he’ll continually adjust until he allows himself to be boiled alive.

Terrible story. And yet many of our money stories are just like this.

You started out as a beautiful, healthy, robust frog — a Soul that knows its natural abundance.

Then you came to the planet.

You were exposed to your parents’ money beliefs. You lived life with thousands of other people and their money stories. You listened to the news. You experienced some desire. You experienced some lack. You learned how to *earn* money. You felt good when you had resources and bad when you didn’t. You were praised when you followed a path that others felt would provide you security.

And the money water grew warmer.

You connected more and more with outside forces regarding money rather than hearing your own Soul. You pushed hard and achieved. You were praised for pulling yourself up.

And the money water grew warmer.

You started watching your bank account (both present and future bank accounts) and felt good or bad based on how much was in it. You wanted to follow your passion, so you left behind a salary, but forgot that Source was the source of your money, not a paycheck, so money dipped for a while and you attributed it to your passion, not your connection.

And the money water started to boil.

You recognized that something was wrong, but you weren’t sure what it was (that water was warm and comfortable before), so you kept re-believing all the old themes and stories while you soft boiled from the inside out and your bank account became harder and harder to maintain.

My friends, it is time to get out of the pot.

You can use affirmations, visualizations, mantras, etc. — they are all amazing tools — but they are never going to work from inside the pot. They will only turn down the water a degree or two.

The way to get out of the pot is to remember you are in relationship with the Soul, with the essence of Money. The you that is in relationship with the Soul of Money is a naturally abundant Soul NOT the human experience you’ve had with money.

When you reclaim your abundant nature, when you reconnect with your Soul around money, you shatter the pot you’ve been swimming in. You have a whole new vantage point regarding money. Now your bank account will start to change.

Ready to get out of the pot?

Jennifer Bloome is a Soul Abundance Guide, Energy Healer, and Master Soul Language Practitioner. She teaches people a new language to communicate directly with their Soul, so they create a flow of Soul-Based Abundance that is in alignment with their gifts, talents and true nature. Ready to learn the language of your Soul? Sign up for a free Money Language Translation Session to learn one of the money languages of your Soul.

Why Money Feels Empty (and Your Key to Changing That)

Something I hear a lot is: it’s not about the money for me.

And I get it. It’s not about the money for me either. In fact, I don’t have specific income goals for my business. They feel completely empty to me. There’s no drive for me to achieve them. I am not extrinsically motivated by money.

This has created a huge push pull for me as I am continually nudged by the Universe to take my work to a broader audience. How can I do that when “making money” isn’t a particular goal of mine?

Here’s how:

  1. Money is simply the doorway.

    The doorway to a life of purpose, freedom, significant reach, luxury, comfort, joy in new experiences, connection, and generosity. Now that’s rich motivation for me.

  2. Every door needs a key. Money isn’t discriminating. You can open the door with any key you want.

    Power. Ambition. Sheer will. Force. Pain. Suffering. Comparison. Keeping up with the Jones’.

  3. The key you choose changes the experience of what is on the other side of your money doorway.

    Ultimately, it is the key you choose that determines your experience of the money – whether money fuels a sense of emptiness or endless possibility.

The key I choose is: Consciousness.

I choose to open my money door through Soul by creating a personal and specific relationship with the Soul of Money.

This key creates the experience of endless possibilities — all of which connect directly to my own value and values because I have created it with the input of my own Soul.

Take a moment and consider: What key am I choosing? How does that key impact my experience of money? My life experiences?

Jennifer Bloome is a Soul Abundance Guide, Energy Healer, and Master Soul Language Practitioner. She teaches people a new language to communicate directly with their Soul, so they create a flow of Soul-Based Abundance that is in alignment with their gifts, talents and true nature. Ready to learn the language of your Soul? Sign up for a free Money Language Translation Session to learn one of the money languages of your Soul.

Stop trying. Know.

Today’s message will be short and… well I can’t promise sweet. It will be truth, though.

Are you trying to create more resources (in other words, money) in your life?

Stop.

No, really, stop.

Trying to create and manifest will only bring more pain and suffering. When you “try,” the energetic message behind it is — well, I’m going to do these actions and hope for the best, but most of me simply expects to get more of the same.

So, what happens? More of the same. Except, there’s even more pain and suffering because you’ve asked for what you want and didn’t receive. Not getting what you want goes against your essential nature — that creates deep, visceral pain.

To create real change in the amount of resources you have in your daily life, you must move into the being state of trust. Knowing. Expectation.

The easiest way I know how to do that is to step into your own personal and specific relationship with the soul of money.

Take a moment and think of your most trusted friendship. That one person who knows everything about you. That “no work” relationship. That person who seems to know you better than you know yourself. That one person you can always count on to “be there” for you when life gets tough, or when you need a shoulder, or when you need a ride to the ER or the airport.

You can have the same relationship with money.

And when you do, you’ll move into a place of trust. Knowing. Expectation of all the resources you could ever want.

Soul Language is by far the best tool I have ever used to create my own personal and specific relationship with money. It’s a phenomenal tool because you are learning your very own connection to both your Soul and the Soul of Money. Doesn’t get more personal or specific than that.

If you already have your languages identified, this is your nudge to re-start your sacred practice and check in with your languages on a regular basis.

If you don’t have your languages identified, let’s talk and get you started. Move into the being state of trust, knowing, and expectation so you can have a steady and consistent flow of money.

Jennifer Bloome is a Soul Abundance Guide, Energy Healer, and Master Soul Language Practitioner. She teaches people a new language to communicate directly with their Soul, so they create a flow of Soul-Based Abundance that is in alignment with their gifts, talents and true nature. Ready to learn the language of your Soul? Sign up for a free Money Language Translation Session to learn one of the money languages of your Soul.

Does Money Do This for You?

Money has been set up as a validator in our culture.

If you have the ‘right’ amount of money, then you are:

A good provider
A hard worker
A smart person
A businessperson with a valid message
And many, many more.

Because of the in-grained nature of these validations, we twist them around and bring them internally:

I need to make the right amount of money to prove I am being seen and heard.

And if the money isn’t there, we fall into the trap of:

There must be something wrong with me / my message.

Or the more global: I am not enough.

Isn’t it interesting how the “enough” of a bank account impacts the “enoughness” of our very Soul?

Take a moment, take a breath, and close your eyes.

Connect with your Soul via your Soul Language team if you have had them identified, or simply ask to be connected with your Soul. Ask this question:

What percentage of me is still waiting for the money to prove that I am enough? That I have a valid message?

If that percentage is anything higher than 0, then ask: what do I get to accept or release to bring that percentage to 0?

As you work on this, you are strengthening your Relationship with Self, which is one of the three key relationships that impact your tangible money.

Jennifer Bloome is a Soul Abundance Guide, Energy Healer, and Master Soul Language Practitioner. She teaches people a new language to communicate directly with their Soul, so they create a flow of Soul-Based Abundance that is in alignment with their gifts, talents and true nature. Ready to learn the language of your Soul? Sign up for a free Money Language Translation Session to learn one of the money languages of your Soul.

Your Abundance Being State

Anytime you want to create something, there is a gap between when you speak your intention and the physical manifestation.

That gap can be a millisecond or a lifetime, we get to choose. Generally, I’d rather choose the millisecond rather than a lifetime!

To minimize that gap, your goal is to BE in the feeling state that is the energetic match to what you’re asking. When you do this you become the key to the Universe’s “lock” and what you want begins the unfolding process.

Manifestation 101, right? The $100,000 question is: HOW?

The Answer: shift into your Abundance Being State. Let me explain.

Energetically speaking, during the gap, you want to maintain the be-ing state that is the equivalent to the creation you want.

How do you know what that is? The general answer for everyone is: By asking how you’ll feel when it arrives.

Will you feel joyful? Energized? Excited? Grounded? This is the be-ing state you want to maintain.

Knowing your Abundance Being State takes this one step further.

Each of us has a team of (3) soul advisors that are here to guide us in our relationship with money. When we are in alignment with this team of advisors, tending that gap gets easier.

Each advisor has specific information to guide you in your money relationship. One of these advisors guides you to the “being” state that allows a flow of money for you — this is called your Abundance Being State. This is the be-ing state you want to follow when you are in the gap.

For example, for me, this advisor is Heartfelt Artist. My Abundance Being State is: Open-Hearted, Creative, Non-Attached.

Another example is Beekeeper. The Abundance Being State for this advisor: Focused, Expectant, Balanced (Active/Rest).

These soul advisors are known officially as your Sacred Partnership with Money Languages. With these advisors you receive specific information about what your Soul prefers and how exactly to “be” when you are in the gap — and your creation time is going to fall closer to milliseconds than a lifetime.


Ready to diminish your gap?  Ready to bring more of your Soul into your creations?  The Soul Abundance Identification Package is the place to start.

Learn more here.

Jennifer Bloome is a Soul Abundance Guide, Energy Healer, and Master Soul Language Practitioner. She teaches people a new language to communicate directly with their Soul, so they create a flow of Soul-Based Abundance that is in alignment with their gifts, talents and true nature. Ready to learn the language of your Soul? Sign up for a free Money Language Translation Session to learn one of the money languages of your Soul.

End Money Damsel in Distress Syndrome

Have you ever sat alone at night and wished for the winning lottery ticket numbers?

Have you ever begged, cajoled, or demanded the Universe just GIVE you the money already?

If so, you might have “damsel in distress” syndrome.

This morning I was thinking about some habitual thoughts that have poked their heads up from time to time for me and suddenly, I realized with those thoughts, I was acting like a damsel in distress.

That was a really uncomfortable awareness.

I am a strong, independent woman. I am at Mt. Holyoke graduate. I’m a freaking double Huntress (in the Soul Language paradigm). And I was waiting for money to save me.

Part of me saw money as the knight in shining armor. The one that was going to erase all the pain. The one that was going to erase all the suffering.

But it wasn’t showing up the way I wanted it to. And it made me feel like I had been left behind by the universe. That I was the “broken” cog in the giant Universal wheel.

However, what I can see now is money was being my knight in shining armor, just in a different way than I had ever imagined.

Because I didn’t win the lottery, because I didn’t get some crazy influx of cash, I had to do the only thing that was really ever going to work in the first place: I had to change my relationship with money.

I had to honor my own connection with divinity. I had to claim my gifts. I had to claim my voice. I had to show up in a clear current and conscious way with money.

Doing this has led to infinitely more happiness than simply being gifted the money.  Not because it was harder, but rather because it reconnected me with the true source of my Beingness.  From that connection, all is possible — money and more.

Do you know that scene in Pretty Woman? The one at the very end where Richard Gere is climbing up the fire escape with the umbrella and bouquet of flowers, terrified of heights but doing it anyway?

Julia Roberts meets him halfway down. He asks, “What’s next, after the brave prince has rescued the princess,” and she says, “She rescues him right back.”

Relationship.  Connection.  Showing up.  Consciousness. Being a true partner with money.

That’s the powerful antidote to damsel in distress syndrome.

Jennifer Bloome is a Soul Abundance Guide, Energy Healer, and Master Soul Language Practitioner. She teaches people a new language to communicate directly with their Soul, so they create a flow of Soul-Based Abundance that is in alignment with their gifts, talents and true nature. Ready to learn the language of your Soul? Sign up for a free Money Language Translation Session to learn one of the money languages of your Soul.

Do You Get the Money, or Do I?

In our culture, money is set up as either / or:

Either I believe in complete selfishness and act as though all money should be mine, or I am completely selfless and give it all away.

Either I get the money… or you do.

Soul-based Abundance allows us to find the middle ground: I can have an exquisite life experience and so can you.

I can be open to receive my good AND still be mindful of who I want to be to allow good to flow through me to others.

The word that springs to mind is: Interconnected.

But even interconnection depends on me using my resources to make myself as strong as I can. Depleted energy can’t give.

The amazing aspect of money to remember is that it is simply another form of the Divine. The Divine is limitless, right? As we “use” the knowing that money is of the Divine to fuel our receiving, we can rest in the knowing there is an unlimited amount left for everyone else.

I am not a church-goer, but the image this brings up for me is a Sunday morning. Think of the tens of thousands of people in church across the United States, connecting to and drawing on the Divine in those hours of the morning.

Does that mean there is less Divine for me to access when I am at the shores of my favorite lake in those exact same hours? I can tell you from personal experience that is not the case.

We are all drawing from the same interconnected web that is the Divine in those moments. And there is an unlimited amount left in the Divine’s tank.

Money can be exactly the same.

For you and for me.

Jennifer Bloome is the Fertile Business Midwife. Jennifer helps people identify and heal the blocks that are keeping them from the prosperous, fertile, Soul-satisfying life and business they desire. Ready to transform? Visit JenniferBloome.com to set up your complimentary Belief Discovery Session to begin to identify and heal your personal blocks that are keeping you from your own prosperous life.

A Story of Inner Abundance in Action

One of the concepts I teach is about “Being the Energy of the Solution.”

In short, Universal Law says for everything that has been created, it’s equal and opposite has been created too. For every problem, there is a solution. When you ask to be the energy of the solution, you are setting yourself up to receive answers.

But what if solutions came before you even knew there were problems?

Being connected with your Inner Abundance means being connected with your divine essence. Connected with your piece of the Divine. Knowing without question who you really are and tapping into all the resources of the Divine. Engaging with this part of you allows life to flow with the assistance of the Divine, instead of pushing and struggling to MAKE things happen with only your effort.

When you flow with the Divine, you are open to receive solutions before problems.

Here’s a great example:

My youngest daughter, Sarah, is a High School Senior and we’ve been neck deep in the college hunt for over a year now.

Early in January, we made a decision to take a last minute visit to Case Western Reserve University where she has already been accepted with a lovely scholarship.

I quickly signed us up for a general admissions visit and campus tour. Sarah is interested in surgical nursing, but they didn’t have a tour set up for the day we were going. So, I reached out directly, and they graciously set up a private tour a couple hours after the general visit.

Perfect. Everything was in place, including our plane tickets.

The day before we leave, I’m printing out parking passes and they have the wrong date for the nursing tour. It’s set up for Thursday when it was supposed to be Friday. I go through my e-mail and discover it’s MY error. I told them we would be there Friday, January 11th. But Friday is the 12th. So they went with the 11th.

Panic set in. That was the whole reason we were going and if we couldn’t have a tour, it would be a waste. Deep breaths. Asking to be the energy of the solution.

Once centered, I called and explained the situation. I asked for a Friday tour, but no one was available. We negotiated a bit and they set us up for late Thursday, right after our flight was due to come in. Not ideal, but a solution. I thought that was magical and that THIS was a demonstration from the Universe. But there was so much more to come!

Our fight into Cleveland was easy, we easily made our tour time. It was an AMAZING experience.

Friday comes and we head to the general admissions visit and campus tour. It is 57 and raining. Over the next two hours, it was forecasted to drop to 30 and ice. We get to the admissions house and were told they will do an abbreviated presentation, but no tour because they are closing the University.

If we had the tour scheduled as I has originally set up, we never would have had it.

The Universe orchestrated a solution to a problem that I didn’t know existed — how could I know that on the day we visited, the University would close? Something that happens more rarely than a Blue Moon?

I just love demonstrations from the Universe.

I will not pretend I have all of this completely figured out.

But what I do know for sure is the more deeply I connect with my own Inner Abundance, the more I allow the Divine to thread through me in a way that allows co-creation, the more life unfolds with joy and richness of all kinds.

What solutions would you like to show up for you?

Jennifer Bloome is the Fertile Business Midwife. Jennifer helps people identify and heal the blocks that are keeping them from the prosperous, fertile, Soul-satisfying life and business they desire. Ready to transform? Visit JenniferBloome.com to set up your complimentary Belief Discovery Session to begin to identify and heal your personal blocks that are keeping you from your own prosperous life.

What Does Money “Fix” For You?

If you were to open your door tomorrow morning and find a suitcase full of tens of millions of dollars… what would that “fix” in your life?

Allow you the opportunity to do the work you are truly passionate about?
Create a feeling of sweet relief?
Live up to the agreements you have with others?  Erase debts?
Finally have evidence that all the “being good” has been rewarded?
Allow joy and fun back into daily life?
Create a sense of safety on this planet?

I know YOU know that money doesn’t create happiness.

But we still hold out for money to fix our lives.  At some level, money is the knight in shining armor that is going to save us from our own lives.

Money has some big shoulders and can take whatever we put on it.  But it also is bound by the same energetic principles as the rest of the Universe.

When we need money to fix our life — when we yearn for the safety of money — when we won’t be happy until we are doing work we are passionate about and can’t do the work we are passionate about until we have money — we are focusing on what we don’t have and that is what gets amplified in our lives.

The key, then, is to separate your understanding of who you are and your intrinsic worthiness and value from money.  To love who you are, to know you are enough, right here and now — regardless of your bank account or the amount of your debt.

I don’t mean hate on money or to build up a belief living without is the “right” way to live.

No. I mean to have a deep love of yourself, radiate your Inner Capital right now and release all need for money to fix you or your life.  Spend time loving money for itself.  For the fun.  For the lightness.  For the joy.

With the resistance to money gone, money has the energetic space to flow to you.

Let it in!

Jennifer Bloome is the Fertile Business Midwife. Jennifer helps people identify and heal the blocks that are keeping them from the prosperous, fertile, Soul-satisfying life and business they desire. Ready to transform? Visit JenniferBloome.com to set up your complimentary Belief Discovery Session to begin to identify and heal your personal blocks that are keeping you from your own prosperous life.

Politics, Money, and Love

I’m not really one to get too political. I choose that mostly because I know we create the strongest influence in the direction we want by holding our own centers; BEING the change we want to see in the world (and then taking inspired action). I can’t follow the political “game” and hold my center. So, normally, I don’t.

However these are not normal times.

The political climate is filled with so much hate, classism, and what feels like down-right meanness. And, so much of it is driven by greed. Money (and the power that comes with it).

Perhaps that is an oversimplification and I know there are other driving forces, but I am struck by what people do to other people for the sake of money. I find myself wanting to say human beings can be so cruel.

Rocks my ability to hold my center, truth be told.

And yet here’s what I know. If I lose my center, I contribute to the “madness” of the world by adding my anxiety and fear to the Collective. That doesn’t serve me and it doesn’t do anything to serve the world.

So what do I do? What’s anyone to do?

What if we all learned to bring ourselves and our relationship with money up into the consciousness of Love? I’m not talking romantic love, I’m talking about the consciousness of Love. What David Hawkins defines as one of the higher level emotions connected with power. Here’s what he says about Love:

Love is a state of being. It’s a forgiving, nurturing, and supportive way of relating to the world. Love isn’t intellectual and doesn’t proceed from the mind; Love emanates from the heart. It has the capacity to lift others and accomplish great feats because of its purity of motive.

If we would tolerate no less than the consciousness of love in our interactions with money, what would that do to the world around us? With enough momentum, I believe it would radically change the world in which we all live. Imagine the consciousness of Love living everywhere where there was greed, anger, shame, and power-grabbing?

A naïve view? I used to think so. But I believe that is the purpose of this time. To create SO much contrast that we have to make a shift.

And it starts with me. And with you. And with our individual relationships or agreements with money. The beauty of this process is the more you shift toward Love, the more abundance naturally finds its way to you. Not a bad side effect, eh?

What are you willing to change in your agreement with money to move closer to the consciousness of Love?

Jennifer Bloome is the Fertile Business Midwife. Jennifer helps people identify and heal the blocks that are keeping them from the prosperous, fertile, Soul-satisfying life and business they desire. Ready to transform? Visit JenniferBloome.com to set up your complimentary Belief Discovery Session to begin to identify and heal your personal blocks that are keeping you from your own prosperous life.