Are You too Nice to Have Money?

One of the qualities that every single one of my clients has: they are kind.

They care how they interact with others. They crave authentic relationships. They care how they show up in the world. And I can honestly say I attract these types of clients because it mirrors who I am and how I wish to be in the world.

However, there is a downside to this when it comes to creating prosperity.

How can being nice adversely affect prosperity?

First, those of us who are kindhearted have usually been hurt in some way in the past and we never want to do that to someone else.

Second, if there is a situation where only one person can get what they want, we’ll back away.

Third, we don’t want to be given anything. We want to earn and deserve it.

Add all of these up and you can just feel the brakes that you’re putting onto your prosperity. It is as if you are saying to the Universe, “Well, I want ‘x’, but only under the ‘right’ terms and conditions, and if those can’t be met, then it’s okay, I’ll go without.”

Now, there is a very prominent mindset/marketing coach who says something along the lines of: You’re not here to win a popularity contest. You’re here to make money. Get over it.

Yikes. This makes me want to put a thousand shields up over my heart center.

But, there is middle ground.

What if you started with knowing that:

You deserve to have what you want.
Everybody deserves to have what they want.
You can’t push away enough of what you want so that others can have more.
You can have what you want.
You can be a nice, kindhearted person and have all that you want.

When you embody these beliefs, now you open yourself to the magic and abundance of the Universe and giving yourself complete permission to be who you are and be prosperous.

Jennifer Bloome is the Fertile Business Midwife. Jennifer helps people identify and heal the blocks that are keeping them from the prosperous, fertile, Soul-satisfying life and business they desire. Ready to transform? Visit to set up your complimentary Belief Discovery Session to begin to identify and heal your personal blocks that are keeping you from your own prosperous life.


  1. JoAnn Bannworth says

    Good morning,
    I really enjoyed reading your article today
    and it was as if you crawled in my mind and
    wrote from there. It is me you were talking
    about. Thank you so much. Now how to
    correct and move toward the prosperity I have
    Been wanting to create and keep it flowing. There
    have been bits and pieces of times i created
    Prosperity in a sense but Soon it is gone. Help.

    • Jennifer Bloome says

      Hi JoAnn,

      The amount of money we have flowing into our experience is a reflection of the amount of love for ourselves we have flowing into our experience here on planet Earth.

      What can you let go, allow, accept or activate within you to allow more sustainable self-love? To know, once and for all, that you are enough?

      Prosperous Blessings,


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