How do you get something to actually change?
How do we get something to actually change? To have more physical money in the bank account? To have more time in our day? To have more days of connection with our partner?
The answer starts out hard to hear, but if you can really hear it, you will have an immense amount of freedom and the path to having what you want will unfold. So stay with me!
Here is the answer: There is no magic pill. There is no singular step that if you just do once, you get exactly what you want. There is no one recipe for creating or having what you want
As soon as you let go of the drive for a magic pill, then:
- You can stop the incessant searching for the right answer
- You can let go of any part of you saying “I am not enough” because I haven’t figured this out yet
- You can let go of the pressure of NEEDING to get THE answer
- You can let go of the self-flagellation, the pushing against, the negative self-talk that drains you and creates more distance between you and what you want
This opens the door to the only things that propel you toward creating real change in your life:
- Committing to YOU, not a technique
- Feeling deep love and acceptance of yourself regardless of the external state of what you want
- Taking the daily steps which will create the momentum towards what you want
- Nourishing yourself into action
- Hearing and following inspiration
What you are really doing is accepting yourself as an individual drop of Divinity – one who is NOT like everyone or anyone else – which in turns opens you fully and completely to receiving the map to your own Soul’s abundance.