In Your Dance with the Divine, Have You Tied the Divine’s Hands?

What does the phrase “co-creation” mean to you?

When using this phrase in conjunction with spiritual teachings, it means creating together with the Divine. This is an amazing gift available to us here on Planet Earth. We have the absolute power of the Divine available to us in every moment; the Divine literally ‘has our backs’ in every moment of every day.

If you are going to be a co-creator with the Divine, be in partnership with the Divine, there is only one rule: you have to let the Divine in. You have to let the Universe truly be your partner.

In partnerships, you each have distinct roles, right?

In co-creation with the Divine, your job is to focus on what you want and then follow through on the Inspired Actions that come.

The Divine’s job is to move the powers of the Universe to make that happen for you.

Sounds simple, right?

Well, honestly, if it were that simple, we’d all have everything we want.

Here’s one issue I see getting in the way. I’ve seen it in myself and I’ve seen it in my clients: we want to control the entire relationship.

Sometimes it comes down to trust.

Sometimes it comes down to having a skewed understanding of the Divine.

Sometimes it comes down to impatience.

Sometimes it comes down to the old stories that we hold about ourselves.

Sometimes it comes down to the value we see (or don’t see) in ourselves.

Sometimes it comes down to fear.

Regardless of what the underlying reason is, the result is that we push away the Divine. We hold so tightly to what we want, trying so hard to control what happens in our lives and businesses, we push out the Divine.

And, the Divine let’s us do it. We’re running the show. If that’s the co-creative experience we want, then the Divine says, “So Be It.” And it is done.

But this makes life hard. And joy-less. And we aren’t able to be in our purpose as effectively.

Take a moment and consider how you handle your role as a co-creator.

What can you let go of today, in this very moment, to allow the Divine a more powerful role in this co-creative relationship?

Jennifer Bloome is the Fertile Business Midwife. Jennifer helps people identify and heal the blocks that are keeping them from the prosperous, fertile, Soul-satisfying life and business they desire. Ready to transform? Visit to set up your complimentary Belief Discovery Session to begin to identify and heal your personal blocks that are keeping you from your own prosperous life.


  1. I recently accepted the word “co-creator” and the true and loving definition of it 🙂 It has been an actual relief that I am not alone in what I do! And when I do have those moments where I think “I got this” and things don’t turn out so smooth, I have to chuckle and re-engage walking together with the Divine and life is truly great again.

    I just started following your work, Jennifer, and I am loving that we speak the same language.

    I appreciate and enjoy YOU and the words that you share 🙂

    • Jennifer Bloome says

      Glad to have you here, Janina! Yes, isn’t it wonderful to know that the Divine “has your back” in every moment? What a relief it is to not have to be out there on your own, making everything happen. For me, there are certain areas where it is easier to let go and allow that co-creation and certain areas that I am continuing to discover how I can allow more co-creation. But, that’s the journey here, right?!

      Thanks for sharing.


  2. Your wisdom about this exactly mirrors a writing channeling I did this week, asking the Goddess what her will for me is around my business. I appreciate hearing this from you, too. When I do the footwork, let go of the outcome, and also let go of how it “should” look, miracles, an abundance of them, happen every time. Thanks, Jennifer!

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