What are you amplifying with your resolutions?
Happy 2023!
Are you a resolution maker? A goal setter? More of a focused intention kind of person?
However you create the structure that moves you forward, an important question to ask is:
What am I amplifying with this (resolution, goal, intention)?
We often set goals or intentions or resolutions to move away from the pain in our lives. And of course we do. That makes complete sense.
At the same time, though, when we moving away from what is creating the pain, we often take the feeling with us and simply allow the shiny new structure to mask that feeling.
But the only place that is masked, is within our minds. Our bodies are still feeling that feeling which creates two unintentional consequences..
- Every time we focus on the goal, we are actually amplifying the old feeling.
- Every time we feel the feeling, we are sharing that with the Universe, not the new goal.
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Let me give you a quick example.
Let’s say that you are tired of watching money kind of slip through your fingers. You feel like you have no control with your money. Each time you end up with less money that you thought, or when it all gets spent before you realize it, you start feeling down, depressed, and perhaps even like you’re not enough. Why can’t you figure it out?
So the new year rolls around and you say AH-HA! This is the year that I figure out the budget. Or, this is the year that I create so much money that I don’t need a budget. You start putting new systems in place. You start taking action.
But that action is being fueled by a deeper feeling state of not enough. Every time that you take your action step, you are amplifying that feeling within you. That is what gets broadcast out to the Universe. And you are then treated to more experiences that match that feeling of not enough. The budget lasts only a month. The new pricing structure is met with crickets.
While budgets and new pricing structures are important pieces of the puzzle, they are not the first steps.
You must first address the internal emotional first and then take action.
So here on the first day of 2023, my question for you is: What are you amplifying with your resolutions?
And if you are ready to fuel your intentions from a place of joy and worthiness and love rather than not enough, let’s talk so that 2023 becomes the year that you fill your entire experience with joy and abundance.