Don’t Demand… Receive

May I be honest with you?

These past several weeks have brought a flurry of questions from all around me: clients, friends, colleagues. We are all asking really BIG questions.

Questions like:

How do I focus on what I want when physical reality is showing me evidence after evidence after evidence of what I don’t want?

How do I change the fuel of how I create from being one of pushing, striving, and resistance to one of non-resistance?

How do I really plug myself into the flow of lavish abundance?

How do I make REAL changes in my life?

How do I let go and surrender when it feels like I’m losing something important?

As I sat down to write the newsletter, I found myself wanting to create, in four paragraphs or less, THE answer, to at least one of these questions. Because not having the answer stops the flow of abundance. I want you all (and myself) to be tuned into the beautiful, undeniable, flow of lavish abundance.

Not surprisingly though, I froze. Total. Writer’s. Block.

Creative, Divine flow doesn’t happen when I demand it. When *I* NEED THE ANSWER.

Nothing flows when it’s demanded. When you HAVE to have it or else life will be miserable. When you HAVE to have it or you will feel pain.

What did I do? After a miserable 45 minutes staring at a blank screen I stopped. Took a breath. And softened the edge of my demand to know the answer. I opened up my Divine connection and asked my team to show me.

And of course, in doing that, I received THE answer, which is really the answer to all the questions I listed:

Stop pushing. Take a breath. Soften the edges and connect. Listen. The answer is right there in that space. Don’t demand it, receive it. Allow it. Trust.

What would flow for you if you opened to allow and receive?

Soften the Edges

Jennifer Bloome is the Fertile Business Midwife. Jennifer helps people identify and heal the blocks that are keeping them from the prosperous, fertile, Soul-satisfying life and business they desire. Ready to transform? Visit to set up your complimentary Belief Discovery Session to begin to identify and heal your personal blocks that are keeping you from your own prosperous life.


  1. Just what I needed to hear. Thanks for channeling this Divine message.

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