Stop Glossing Over the Heartbreak

Stop glossing over the heartbreak of not getting what you want.

It’s literally stopping your abundance.

Not because money needs you to be happy (because money is a neutral energy without free will), but because when you are heartbroken over not getting what you want you start to make decisions about why it hasn’t happened:

• I’m not enough
• I’m a bad business person
• I don’t ever get to get what I want
• I haven’t done enough
• I must not be responsible enough
• I’m too careless with my money
• God hates me
• I’m the mistake
• I always come in second place
• I never get what I *really* want

These decisions separate your from the magic and power of your personal Divinity. They focus you on your human experience only.

Not only that, but you end up fueling your soul money relationship from a place of expecting not to get what you want.

Money and the Divine (the other two players in your soul money relationship) are like, “Ok, we follow your lead. Whatever you want.”

When you are following spiritual principles, you tend to gloss over negative feelings – after all, you don’t want the law of attraction to bring you more, right? Even when you are saying the “right” words, your feelings of grief and disconnection pulse in your frequency.

Listen, you don’t have to swim in the pain. You don’t have to clear every single negative experience you have with money and abundance.

Instead, learn how to give voice to the pain in a way that uncovers the decisions you’ve made about your (non)expectation of getting what you want so that you can release it from your brain and nervous system. That, in turn, will re-open you to your power and flow of abundance.

I have found the best way to start this is to re-establish a deep connection with the Divine and the Divine in you. The best tool that I know to facilitate that is Soul Language. Knowing your personal, money, and divine soul languages gives you a way to build your connection consistently.

Don’t know your soul languages? Here’s how you can get identified.​
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Already know your languages? Let’s work together to both heal the heartbreak of not getting what you want AND establish a new level of expectation of getting what you want. Set up a time on my calendar to plan our work together.